what make every relationship successful?
How did you definition a relationship?
You probably will say ”The relationship between two people or groups is the way in which they feel and behave towards each other.” or you may say ” A relationship is a close friendship between two people, especially one involving romantic or sexual feelings.” No matter what kind of definition, there are so many way to definite it. However, today we will talk about the relationship of romantic.
I think an important point of a relationship is you need to get a balance on it and your life, which means you have to focus on your life purpose or your career when you get into a relationship. As like you won’t lose your life goals when you communicate with your friends. But lots of people will lost it when they get into a romantic relationship.
I saw a lot of girls always care too much about their boyfriend and can’t stop thinking why he didn’t reply my message after 3 hours etc, which sometimes they will lost their life of everything such as life purpose and dream. Because they just put all focus on their boyfriend.
I have to admit I was one of them. When I didn’t get the responds after few hours, I will keep thinking why he didn’t answer it and I will get angry about that. Actually I know why he didn’t reply it when he is on work. (because he was busy), on contrast, when he is not on work, I will start to over-thinking. On my perspective I just hope he can tell me what does he do now, if he is busy when I can totally understand. But when he not tell me anything, then I just follow the same disastrous road to ruin.
Well I believe you will ask me ”then why do you want to write this article? ” As I said on that, I am one of those girl who just focus on their boyfriends and now I know I have to back on my life and need to balance it. Thence I need to learn how to do and how can I balance it, which that’s why I writing this article to share with you guys if you want to do it too.
Falling in love Or Staying in love
First, let us talk about what different between falling in love and staying in love. Falling in love means thinking every damn thing they do is adorable, even if it’s as random as the way they sneeze or the way they hold a book, also, means treasuring every exciting new adventure you share together and the being thankful that they are sleeping safely beside you.
However, staying in love means learning how to get over all of the little things they do that absolutely drive you nuts, and loving them anyways and making a lot of difficult and selfless choices, because the happiness of the two of you as a team means so much more to you than your own individual desires.
They’re both wonderful, beautiful experiences, but it is not until you understand how and why they are different that you can truly appreciate what you have in front of you and how you can make it last.
How did you think what makes a relationship health?
All romantic relationships go through ups and downs and they all take work, commitment, and a willingness to adapt and change with your partner. You’re a meaningful emotional connection with each other. There’s a difference between being loved and feeling loved. When’s a difference between being loved and feeling loved. When you feel loved, it makes you feel accepted and valued by your partner, like someone truly Gets you.
But whether your relationship is just starting out or you’ve been together for years, there are steps you can take To build a healthy relationship. Even if you’ve experienced a lot of failed relationships in the past or struggled before to rekindle the fires of romance in your current relationship, you can learn to stay connected, find fulfillment, and enjoy lasting happiness.
- Be together for the right reasons.
Don’t ever be with someone because someone else pressured you to. I think the only reason you should ever be with the person you’re with is because you simply love being around them. It really is that simple.
2. Spend quality time face to face
Commit to spending some quality time together on a regular basis. No matter how busy you are, take a few minutes each day to put aside your electronic devices, stop thinking about other things, and really focus on and connect with your partner.
Find something that you enjoy doing together, whether it is a shared hobby, dance class, daily walk, or sitting over a cup of coffee in the morning.
Try something new together. Doing new things together can be a fun way to connect and keep things interesting. It can be as simple as trying a new restaurant or going on a day trip to a place you’ve never been before.
Focus on having fun together. Couples are often more fun and playful in the early stages of a relationship. However, this playful attitude can sometimes be forgotten as life challenges start getting in the way or old resentments start building up. Keeping a sense of humor can actually help you get through tough times, reduce stress and work through issues more easily.
3.Stay connected through communication
Good communication is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship. When you experience a positive emotional connection with your partner, you feel safe and happy. When people stop communicating well, they stop relating well, and times of change or stress can really bring out the disconnect. It may sound simplistic, but as long as you are communicating, you can usually work through whatever problems you’re facing.
Tell your partner what you need, don’t make them guess.
If you’ve known each other for a while, you may assume that your partner has a pretty good idea of what you are thinking and what you need. However, your partner is not a mind-reader. While your partner may have some idea, it is much healthier to express your needs directly to avoid any confusion.
4. Learn to give and take in your relationship
Actually we have a lot of things need to learn from a relationship, not just those what I said. But I believe if you can do a good balance of all of it, then I think you guys can holding each other’s hand forever. No matter what happened and you guys will get through it together.
實際上，我們需要從戀愛中學習很多東西，不僅僅是上面我所說的那些。 但是我相信，如果您能在所有方面取得良好的平衡，那麼我認為你們可以永遠握住彼此的手。 不管發生了什麼，你們都會一起經歷。