what are gonna be when you grow up
Are you have been asked that what are you gonna be when you grow up? In other words is what’s your dream?
Since I was a child, I always keep think this question, which I am keep doing dream that I want to be a singer, flight attendant, designer etc. Actually on this question, you can find out what kind of job you are going to have when you grow up. But the most of child don’t know how to answer this question because they will think I’m just a kid; how could I know what I want to be when I’m an adult?
In my case, I have know I would not be a singer when I was in high school because I knew I don’t have a good voice for singing, also I clearly knew I won’t be a flight attendant when I graduated from university. To be a flight attendant basically is a plan when I was a freshman, which I started to prepare everything on that and studying language in the same time. Therefore I planed that I will get the language license in junior and I will start to get some interviews in senior. But in senior, so many things happend in my home, which I couldn’t do it in that time. Aftermath, I carefully thinking about it, being a flight attendant is not a best choice for me, cause my health is not good enough. So I quit.
Now I clearly know what am I want to be in my future and also I am working on it. In 2019 of last few months I’ve been through so many things that I cannot breath, which those time I’ve kept thinking what do I need to do and how to do for my future.
Therefore I took everything to stop, even my website and my brand since I confuse about my career, also I taken advantage of travel the world to find the answer out. That’s why I havn’t published any aritcle from that time.
Actually I always know what do I wanna do, just I don’t know how to do, which means I don’t have a completely strategy to push me do it. But now I exactly know how to do it
However the first I want to do is provide a service for everyone who wanna get a breathtaking style of daily outfit but don’t know how to match it, which I will launch monthly subscription service of it.
Are you growing up Or just getting order?
Growing up is not to getting older.
What does it mean to growing up? or you may ask what is the difference between growing up and growing old?
To have adult responsibilities? I have a few of those. To be objectively mature? I probably have a ways to go
You probably will say I wake up early, work a nine-to-five, and come back to a homemade dinner and the 10:00 news, which those all an adult will do. But that’s definitely not me.
Actually that is a really simple question for everyone, just ask yourself, did you feel that much different than you did five years ago? Five years ago, I was a senior student in college and keep study languages for prepare my interview of flight attendant. In that time I was still naive, I had a few less responsibilities, and I had a very different idea of what my long-term future would look like. But was I really all that different? I was not. I still have the same interests. I still have the same personality. I still have my strengths, and I still have my shortcomings.
I believe that growing up is something we never truly do, at least not in the sense that we believe we eventually will when we’re young. Growing up is knowing how to act in different situations. Growing up is what parts of your inner self you share with others. Growing up is knowing your audience and tailoring yourself to accommodate that audience’s expectations. But growing up is not changing who you truly are.
what does it mean to Getting old
It’s quit simple question that it means years are quickly passing by, then someone is near to his finish line/death. It is about the fast running years toward the end-time of the a everage approximated life span. So what is the difference between growing up and growing old? The answer is ‘wisdom’. You grow up when you grow wiser.
Because a wiser people know how to control their emotion, know how to deal with some problem by themself and know how to help people to solve problem etc.
Recently I just help my dad to solve a problem of fraud by a bad person, which I went to lots of government agency, police office etc. In that time I just feel like I’m not a little girl anymore because I can help my dad to solve problem, not a girl who always get the help from him.
10 Things Tells You About Growing Up
- Your potential increases with age.
- Friends are relative to where are in your life.
- know how to control your emotion.
- don’t stop reading
- The only person you have to face in the morning is yourself.
- Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself.
- Success is a relative term
- Creativity takes practice
- Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself
- Beliefs are relative to what you pursue.