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Are you growing up Or just getting older?

what are gonna be when you grow up

Are you have been asked that what are you gonna be when you grow up? In other words is what’s your dream?

Since I was a child, I always keep think this question, which I am keep doing dream that I want to be a singer, flight attendant, designer etc. Actually on this question, you can find out what kind of job you are going to have when you grow up. But the most of child don’t know how to answer this question because they will think I’m just a kid; how could I know what I want to be when I’m an adult?

In my case, I have know I would not be a singer when I was in high school because I knew I don’t have a good voice for singing, also I clearly knew I won’t be a flight attendant when I graduated from university. To be a flight attendant basically is a plan when I was a freshman, which I started to prepare everything on that and studying language in the same time. Therefore I planed that I will get the language license in junior and I will start to get some interviews in senior. But in senior, so many things happend in my home, which I couldn’t do it in that time. Aftermath, I carefully thinking about it, being a flight attendant is not a best choice for me, cause my health is not good enough. So I quit.

Now I clearly know what am I want to be in my future and also I am working on it. In 2019 of last few months I’ve been through so many things that I cannot breath, which those time I’ve kept thinking what do I need to do and how to do for my future.

Therefore I took everything to stop, even my website and my brand since I confuse about my career, also I taken advantage of travel the world to find the answer out. That’s why I havn’t published any aritcle from that time.

Actually I always know what do I wanna do, just I don’t know how to do, which means I don’t have a completely strategy to push me do it. But now I exactly know how to do it

However the first I want to do is provide a service for everyone who wanna get a breathtaking style of daily outfit but don’t know how to match it, which I will launch monthly subscription service of it.

Are you growing up Or just getting order?

Growing up is not to getting older.
What does it mean to growing up? or you may ask what is the difference between growing up and growing old?

To have adult responsibilities? I have a few of those. To be objectively mature? I probably have a ways to go
You probably will say I wake up early, work a nine-to-five, and come back to a homemade dinner and the 10:00 news, which those all an adult will do. But that’s definitely not me.

Actually that is a really simple question for everyone, just ask yourself, did you feel that much different than you did five years ago? Five years ago, I was a senior student in college and keep study languages for prepare my interview of flight attendant. In that time I was still naive, I had a few less responsibilities, and I had a very different idea of what my long-term future would look like. But was I really all that different? I was not. I still have the same interests. I still have the same personality. I still have my strengths, and I still have my shortcomings.

I believe that growing up is something we never truly do, at least not in the sense that we believe we eventually will when we’re young. Growing up is knowing how to act in different situations. Growing up is what parts of your inner self you share with others. Growing up is knowing your audience and tailoring yourself to accommodate that audience’s expectations. But growing up is not changing who you truly are.

what does it mean to Getting old

It’s quit simple question that it means years are quickly passing by, then someone is near to his finish line/death. It is about the fast running years toward the end-time of the a everage approximated life span. So what is the difference between growing up and growing old?  The answer is ‘wisdom’. You grow up when you grow wiser.

Because a wiser people know how to control their emotion, know how to deal with some problem by themself and know how to help people to solve problem etc.

Recently I just help my dad to solve a problem of fraud by a bad person, which I went to lots of government agency, police office etc. In that time I just feel like I’m not a little girl anymore because I can help my dad to solve problem, not a girl who always get the help from him.

10 Things Tells You About Growing Up

  1. Your potential increases with age.
  2. Friends are relative to where are in your life. 
  3. know how to control your emotion.
  4. don’t stop reading
  5. The only person you have to face in the morning is yourself.
  6. Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself.
  7. Success is a relative term
  8. Creativity takes practice
  9. Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself 
  10. Beliefs are relative to what you pursue.
您是否被問到長大後會成為什麼樣?換句話說,你的夢想是什麼?

自從我還是個孩子以來,我一直都在想這個問題,我以前夢想著自己想成為歌手,空姐,設計師等。實際上,在這個問題上,您可以找到自己未來的工作。但是大多數孩子不知道如何回答這個問題,因為他們會認為我只是個孩子。成年後我怎麼知道自己想要什麼?

就我而言,我知道我在高中時不會成為歌手,因為我知道自己唱歌的聲音不佳,且我也清楚地知道我大學畢業後不會當空姐。成為空姐基本上是我大一時的一個計劃,那時我開始所有準備為當上空姐的工作,像是學習語言、上考取空姐的相關課程。所以我也計劃在大三時,可以考取到所有的語言許可證,並在大四時開始考試。但是在大四時,我家發生了很多事情,導致於我沒辦法將空姐納入為我的職業,因為那時候家裡需要我的幫助,後來我仔細考慮一下,最後認為空姐對我來說並不是最佳選擇,因為我的健康狀況還不夠好且也不是我真正想做的工作。

現在,我清楚地知道自己將來會成為什麼樣,並且我正在為此而努力。在過去幾個月的2019年中,我經歷了很多令我無法呼吸的事情,那些時候我一直在思考我需要做什麼以及如何為自己的未來做事。自從我有了這些困惑後,我就停止了所有一切正在做的事務,甚至是我的網站和品牌,也利用環遊世界尋找答案。這就是為什麼我從那時起就沒有發表過任何文章。

實際上,我總是知道我想做什麼,只是我不知道該怎麼做,這意味著我沒有完全的策略來推動我去做。但是現在我完全知道該怎麼做了。首先!我想做的第一件事是,為想要獲得驚人風格的日常裝扮但不知道如何搭配的每個人提供服務(我將為其提供每月訂閱服務)。

長大並不是要變老。

長大意味著什麼?或者您可能會問,長大和變老有什麼區別?

要承擔成人責任?要客觀地成熟?您可能會說我早起,工作9點到5點,然後回到自製晚餐和10:00新聞,所有成年人都將做

實際上,這對每個人來說都是一個非常簡單的問題,問問自己,您覺得與五年前有很大不同嗎?

五年前,我在大學裡讀高中,並保留學習語言以準備面試空姐。那時我還很幼稚,也不知道所謂的責任到底是怎麼樣的,而我對自己的長遠前景將有完全不同的看法。但是我真的真的那麼不同嗎?我不是。我仍然有相同的興趣。我仍然有相同的個性。我仍然有我的長處,還有缺點。

我相信成長是我們從未真正做到的事情,至少從某種意義上說,我們相信我們最終會在年輕時最終實現。長大就是知道如何在不同情況下採取行動。長大是與他人分享內在自我的一部分。成長就是了解您的受眾群體,並進行調整以適應該受眾群體的期望。但是長大並不會改變您的真實身份。

對變老意味著什麼?
這一個簡單的問題的答案:歲月很快過去,然後有人接近他的終點線/死亡。這是指接近平均壽命的使用壽命快的幾年。那麼長大和變老有什麼區別呢?答案是“智慧”。當你變得更聰明時,你就會長大。

因為一個有智慧的人知道如何控制自己的情緒,知道如何自己解決一些問題,並且知道如何幫助人們解決問題等。

最近,我只是幫助我的父親解決了一個的欺詐問題,我去了很多政府機構、警察局等。頓時我認為自己不再是小女孩了,因為我可以幫助我父親要解決問題,而不是一個總是從他那裡得到幫助的女孩。

10 件事情告訴你成長了

  1. 1.您的潛力會隨著年齡增長而增加。
  2. 朋友與您生活中的位置有關。
  3. 知道如何控制自己的情緒。
  4. 不要停止閱讀
  5. 您早晨唯一要面對的人就是您自己。
  6. 您的潛力與您對自己的了解程度直接相關。
  7. 成功是一個相對術語
  8. 創意需要實踐
  9. 您的潛力與您對自己的了解程度直接相關
  10. 信念與您追求的目標有關。
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